f the world...
You have a severe case of "one-itis."
like alpha code said, go out with many girls.
Seriously. If a girl knows you like her, she will play you like the pathetic guitar you are. However, if you simply act like you're not interested in her, you can play her like the cheap guitar SHE is.
It's ironic...the need to underminw women as if they are mere tools of experiment to get better at understanding the social dynamics of communicating with them.
You need to simply let what truely does not matter really slide. I believe that there is not truely "a ONE..." but you can get pretty d close!
BIG EX:
There was this one girl who i showed interest in...and she simply didn't go for me. She's quiet...and draws a lot (like me...).
I simply said "that's it." I went back to my old self (don't ask) and doned my black arm bands, my black chain-wallet, my art book, and went to work.
So I stop calling her (freeze out) for three days...
When I do call, she does an insult like "yeah...you decide to call now," so I say "teh...I'll just call someone else."
This registered in her mind that I didn't "need" her and that I could fare well without her.
It's been a year...and she's opening up. She tells me things that she never truely told anyone else...and we're still friends, but I bet that if I went over to her place unexpectedly with my black shirt, blue jeans, black tennis shoes, wallet with chain, and armbands (with the neat aaron-mcgruder bush), walked in, looked around her house like "wtf is going on (neg), acted as if she wasn't much of an entertainment, did a sweet talk, and simply took her hand leading her to a wall...pinning her in...and kissing her, I'd be in.....truely...
TIP: When talking to a women, talk to them as if they are your friend. Seriously! Don't keep asking questions! All you'll get is name, rank, and (if you're lucky) serial number...
Talk to them as if they are your friend, like you've known them for all your life, then you're good...
EX:
ME- (walks up to random women in a bookstore/coffe shop) "Who do you think lies more? Guys or Girls?"
HER- Uh...(says males or females)
ME-Well...I think that (the opposite answer she gave) lies more. (give lame reasons why, etc...) why do you think that (her answer) lie more?
HER-blah blah...yabber yabber...gibber gibber....squash
(the key is to PAY SOME ATTENTION! A BAD A that pays attention is seductive...)
ETC-Conversation continues..
IF YOU ASK QUESTIONS...ADD A COMMENT AFTER HER ANSWER.
EX:
ME- so...what school do you attend?
HER- so and so
ME- I've never heard of that school/i hear it's pretty good. My school is lame etc etc...
You get the point.
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